Life, Love & Relationships: Grown + Sexy Things to Do For a Date Night In Texas

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How is your love life going? Are you getting a healthy balance of mental and physical affection? As an adult, embracing your sexuality and exploring your desires within reason is perfectly healthy and necessary when it comes to love and relationships. Sex is a natural part of life, though so many still treat the topic as a forbidden subject matter. If you’re looking to spice up date night with your partner, check out some of these grown & sexy things to do in Texas:

May Is National Mental Health Awareness & National Masturbation Month!?

I’m making a quick post about two of my most favorite topics to discuss; I am ecstatic there is an entire month dedicated to them. Did you guys know that May Is National Mental Health Awareness Month as well as National Masturbation Month? I won’t talk much on the latter of the two topics (IYKYK 👀😂🤫) but I do want to mention that sexual health is important and matters just as much as mental health.

Life, Love, and Relationships: Partner Appreciation

How do you show your partner you appreciate them? An even better question is how often do you show your partner that you appreciate them? If you only show your partner love on their birthday, Christmas or Valentine’s Day then you could definitely stand to show more love. I get it, we all get busy with life and forget about the things/people that matter the most. Life’s too short to not love on our loved ones as often as possible; to help you remember, below are some alternative holidays meant for showing your significant other appreciation.

Life Update: I Finally Feel Like I Can Breathe 😅

Butterflies! It’s been a long time since you’ve heard from me and I have a valid reason for that…life has been kicking your girl’s ass!!! Honestly, I feel like I’ve been on an up and down rollercoaster ride for the last few years but the last few months have been something entirely different. I found out last year that I have a herniated disc in my lower back which hurts like a b!t@h and is causing me a whole bunch of other problems; physical therapy helped for a little while but the pain/discomfort eventually came back. 

Event Trends: Cool Places To Get Hitched in Texas

When it comes to selecting a venue for you and your partner’s special day or for any other special occasion you may be celebrating, it’s important to find a location that will both accommodate and wow your guest. 

If you’re non-traditional and are looking for a unique place to get married in Texas, these locations are quirky and filled with extras:

30 Days of Gratitude (2021)

Can’t believe it’s that time of year again. I don’t know if it’s just me, but this year is a big blur…seems like it went too fast. I am grateful for so much, a lot has happened this year and there’s a few experiences I’d love to share with you. Here are my 30 Days of Gratitude 2021 edition:

Mental Health: Tips For Surviving a Toxic Workplace Environment

Butterflies, unless you were born into money chances are you’ve had to work for it. The side effects of a toxic work environment can wreck havoc on your personal life if you let it. Staying focused and remembering what your ultimate goals are is how you push through it. 

In honor of World Mental Health Day, below are a few resources for surviving a toxic workplace:

Music: Sexy AF Songs | The Ultimate Sexy Time Playlist

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Butterflies, it’s National Sex Day (6/9), a little reminder to sensual adults all over to embrace your sexuality (it’s also one of my favorite actors birthday…hint: Wade + Edward 😍). Since this is a sex-positive platform as well as a music lovers haven, in celebration of 6/9, below are a few of my favorite sensual/sexy time songs to date. If you’re on Spotify, I have added most of these songs to my Smash Playlist so you can also check them out there…listen and let me know which are your favorite:

Event Trends: 2021 Celebration Trends

Butterflies, it’s that time of year…party season is in full bloom; cookouts/kickbacks, graduations, family reunions and weddings are on the agenda. Choosing the right decor, entertainment and food for your party is critical to its success. Also, keep in mind that we are still in the midst of this covid battle and safety should be a priority at any event. Below we’re sharing with you some of our favorite celebration trends of the year:

Fashion Trends: Love Tees at Cents of Style

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Life, Love & Relationships: 10 Ways to Celebrate Valentine's Day

Butterflies, if you love romance this is for you. Valentine's Day it's one of my favorite holidays because it’s overflowing with positivity, I enjoy seeing people be loved and appreciated. I was thinking of a few different ways to celebrate the day without sticking to the usual routine or over spending, here are a few unconventional ways to celebrate Valentine's Day...

30 Days of Gratitude (2020)

If there was ever a year that needed an abundance of positivity it would without a doubt be this year. We all definitely have A LOT to be thankful for, 2020 has been a VERY interesting year!

Here are my 30 Days of Gratitude 2020.

Wellness: 10 Products for the Discrete Bad Girl

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Butterflies this is an interesting month, not only is it National Pleasure Your Mate Month and World Sexual Health Month; National Freak In the Sheets Day (September 7th) and National Weirdo Day (September 9th) is also this month. With that being said, I encourage you to educate, meditate, and elevate your sexy self. In celebration of discreet bad girls everywhere who handle their business by day and de-stress by night (safely), here are a few super discreet products every good-bad girl should try:

Life Love & Relationships: Alternative Commitment Jewelry

Butterflies,  how do you feel about traditional wedding rings? I enjoy and respect tradition but, I also enjoy and love being myself and making my own choices. I love to see people choose non-traditional wedding jewelry or no jewelry at all. I think getting matching tattoos would be a fun alternative to wedding rings and exchanging gifts that build wealth like stocks and bonds would be a smart alternative to traditional wedding jewelry, not to mention it would also be financially beneficial to you and your partner’s future. 

Event Trends: 2020 Celebration Trends

Butterflies, it’s 2020…the year of COVID and all of this madness has definitely brought to light a few new event trends. Most of the things we enjoy have been put on hold because of covid but as humans we adapt to changes and find alternative ways to get things done…zoom parties are just one example. Below we’re sharing with you some of our favorite celebration trends of the year:

Music: Soul Singer Betty Wright

Butterflies, one of my favorite soul singers passed away today. Betty Wright had a unique voice and mastered the art of storytelling through music. Even though her music was before my time, I grew up listening to a few of her songs which is how I came to love her. Wright’s music expressed thoughts on life, love, and relationships that many people relate to. I definitely can relate to a lot of her songs. If you haven’t heard any of Betty Wright’s music, below are a few of my favorite tracks:

Music: The Ultimate Positive Vibes Playlist

Butterflies, did you know that March is National Optimism Month? Personally, I’m usually more pessimistic than optimistic because life has definitely traumatized me, but when I think about the pursuit of happiness, being optimistic is really the only way one can find their true happiness and radiate positivity. Being optimistic not only helps build up your perseverance to life obstacles, it also kind of gives you something to believe in. Being pessimistic or cynical is not a bad thing, in this crazy world it’s actually best to keep some kind of guard up, but when I need to I often find the boost of positivity I need to get by in a book or by listening to music. 

Below is a list of some of the most optimistic songs I know. As new tracks are released or discovered, this list will be updated annually. Enjoy!

 

Life, Love & Relationship: Sweet Holidays to Celebrate

My sweet Butterflies, as author and poet Terry a O’Neal put it, “even the bitterest fruit has sugar in it.” Sincere altruism has a habitual way of bringing joy into the lives of both individuals, the giver and the receiver. You’ll be surprised at how big of an impact a small kind gesture can have on a person. Below is a list of upcoming national holidays I thought were sweet; be sweet, do something kind for someone else by celebrating these sweet holidays:

Life, Love & Relationships: Sexy Holidays to Celebrate

Friends, lovers, and connoisseurs of kink, if you’ve been enjoying my list of Grown + Sexy Things to Do in Texas, you’ll love this. Add a little spice to your love life, check out my list of sexy holidays to celebrate with your partner this year.

My Top 6 John Lennon Quotes

Today, December 8th is the anniversary of the passing of one of the world’s most talented music artist and peace activist of all time. He passed before I was born but I appreciate that we share similar views on life and I adore that he shares a birthday with my kid. To celebrate him, here are a few of my favorite John Lennon Quotes: