Visiting Texas: Health & Wellness Events in Texas

You know the sayings “health is wealth” and “if you don’t have good health, you don’t have nothing”? Well, they’re true and should serve as reminders to us all to make our wellbeing a priority. Self-Care is a vital part of longevity so whether you are just starting out, trying to refocus or if you’re just trying to improve your overall wellness; mind, body, and soul, check out these local events focusing on health and wellness in Texas:

Wellness: Self-Love Holidays to Celebrate

For the past few years I’ve been on my own personal journey through self-awareness, self-care and self-love. Living the adult life, as well as caring for the ones we love has the tendency to lead us down a path to disregarding our own needs and wants. As the saying goes, you can’t truly love or care for anyone else until you’ve learned to love and care for yourself, to help us remember to love on ourselves as often as possible, here is a list of holidays that will serve as perfect little reminders to spoil yourself this year:

Music: The EMOtional Playlist

You’ve probably heard the term “emo” being used to describe someone who seems to dwell in angst; emo is short for the word emotional. Emo people, similar to Cancerians tend to be extremely emotional and introverted. The emo lifestyle became mainstream in the early 2000’s but has been around for way longer, it’s basically a goth subculture. 

Feelings of anger, lost, regret, sadness, heartache and/or etc. can all be very difficult to get past and it oftentimes feels impossible in the moment, but with the right resources and self-motivation it definitely can be done. 

Music: Sexy AF Songs | The Ultimate Sexy Time Playlist

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Butterflies, it’s National Sex Day (6/9), a little reminder to sensual adults all over to embrace your sexuality (it’s also one of my favorite actors birthday…hint: Wade + Edward 😍). Since this is a sex-positive platform as well as a music lovers haven, in celebration of 6/9, below are a few of my favorite sensual/sexy time songs to date. If you’re on Spotify, I have added most of these songs to my Smash Playlist so you can also check them out there…listen and let me know which are your favorite:

Life, Love & Relationships: 10 Ways to Celebrate Valentine's Day

Butterflies, if you love romance this is for you. Valentine's Day it's one of my favorite holidays because it’s overflowing with positivity, I enjoy seeing people be loved and appreciated. I was thinking of a few different ways to celebrate the day without sticking to the usual routine or over spending, here are a few unconventional ways to celebrate Valentine's Day...

Music: The Ultimate Stoner Playlist

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Butterflies, it still amazes me how much things have changed in the cannabis world over the past couple of years; the mainstream discovery of the many wonderful health benefits of cannabis use is to thank for this. Whether you’re consuming CBD, hemp, or cannabis products from your local dispensary, check out this multi-decade chronological list of popular songs about marijuana for something to vibe out to while you relax, unwind, and mellow out.

Sexy Vibes: Sexy Sale at Frederick’s of Hollywood

If you’re looking to get some new sexy attire, check out the Frederick’s of Hollywood current sale. For a limited time, add at least $50 to your cart, use code T325FREE at checkout and the price will drop $35.95 from your total, giving you over 50% off! The code works on all items, including sale items and shipping is free if you add $75 or more to your cart.

PS. Don’t forget to shop through Rakuten to get 4% cash back and check out my list of Sexy Things to Do in Texas!

Sexy Vibes: Honey Adult Play Deals on Amazon

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For a limited time you can get the Honey Adult Play G Spot Female Adult Toy for only $20 (+ tax & shipping) when you use code 60KMMiJZ; regularly retailed at $50. Product features 27 Modes & G-Spot Stimulation, Waterproof Liquid Silicone, and Portable Wireless Charging.

Also, for a limited time you can get the Honey Adult Play Vibrating Prostate Massager for only $13 (+ tax & shipping) when you use code 60IMHD86; regularly retailed at $33. Product features Waterproof Silicone, Rechargeable, and Remote Controlled.

PS. Check out my list of Sexy Things to Do in Texas!

Visiting Texas: Date Night at Houston Axe Throwing

Houston Butterflies. I tried the gun range for the first time about two years ago and archery for the first time about five years ago and although my fingers were throbbing afterwards on both occasions, it was an awesome experience. More recently, I got to experience axe throwing for the first time at Houston Axe Throwing, Houston's first indoor urban axe throwing range and the first axe throwing club in Texas. 

Sexy Vibes: Neo-Soul Singer Jill Scott Performs With Her Mic 👀

Sexy Butterflies, have y’all seen Miss Jill Scott’s explicit microphone performance? A video of an old Jill Scott performance is making its way around the internet and apparently everyone except the real J. Scott fans are in shock.

Jill Scott tweeted in response to the video with an invitation for all to cum [sic] check out one of her shows, including the hashtag #stopfrontinusuckdicktoo 

Check out the video below and let me know what you think...

Sexy Vibes: Celebrate National Masturbation Month with Sweet Vibrations

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Hi Butterflies. In case you didn’t know, it’s National Wankers Month (lol)! I feel like this is another topic that society has made so taboo that no one wants to talk about it although it’s a natural part of life and when it’s done in moderation (like most things), it can be a healthy alternative to self medicating for stress/anxiety issues and a healthy alternative to sex it self because let’s face it, making the decision to have sex comes with risks. Not too long ago I shared with you guys a few ways you could show yourself some love and enjoying some alone time with your body made the list. I like to think of masturbation as an important (not vital) part of my self care routine and if you really think about it, our sexual health is a part of our self care. 

Self Love: 5 Ways to Show Yourself Some Love

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Hey Butterflies. Self-Love is a mixture of physically and mentally caring for yourself. As humans we tend to seek love and tenderness from outside sources, before taking time for self-discovery. February 13th is National Self-Love Day and this year I decided to share a few ways to  show yourself some love:

New Year’s Eve In + Sparkling Wines Under $15

Butterflies, since New Year’s Eve is a few hours away let me start by saying...alcohol should only be consumed by adults aged 21 years or older who can do so responsibly AND discharging firearms in the air for fun is not what’s up. With that being said...OMG it’s almost 2018! I’m not complaining one bit, I’m gratefully looking forward to another year. I’m still trying to recover from the Christmas hustle and bustle so I think I’m going to stay in with the kiddo and guy and just take it easy. We’ll probably play a few games, eat some tacos, pop some bottles of sparkling wine and sparkling apple juice and light some fireworks. What are you guys doing for New Year’s Eve?

If you’re thinking about celebrating the new year with some bubbly, here are a few of my favorite inexpensive sparkling wines.

Visiting Texas: Date Night at the Range

Butterflies, what’s the weirdest date you’ve ever been on? Ok, going to the gun range is not really weird (practice makes perfect) but it’s not romantic at all and for someone who has zero interest in guns it can be boring. Anyway, my partner is into learning about knives, swords, guns…pretty much most things you’ll see in your favorite action movie and since it’s important to explore each other’s interest we made a date of it.

 

OOTD: My Funny Valentine...What is LOVE?

Happy Love Day My Valentine Butterflies! I met my love/life partner/BFF on this day 12 years ago, that's crazy right? Anyway, I was just setting here thinking about life as I often do and being that today is Valentine's Day my thoughts are pondering love. In the Bible, 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 states: "love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. 

Sexy Vibes: Sexy Costumes From CostumeSuperCenter.com

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Hey my role playing, Halloween loving Butterflies! It's my favorite time of year, the weather is nice and the holidays are upon us. For my fellow Halloween lovers, if you don't want to deal with the hassle of driving around from shop to shop trying to find the perfect costume for Halloween, check out CostumeSuperCenter.com. They have many costumes to choose from, styles range from cute/fun, to sexy, to scary. They have costumes for kids, adults and furry friends. So even if you don't celebrate Halloween, I'm sure you'll find something at CostumeSuperCenter that you can use at your next themed party, cosplay event, or if you just want to spice things up a little at home. Oh and speaking of spicing things up, while searching for a Halloween costume I got distracted by the fact that CostumeSuperCenter also has sexy lingerie costumes and decided to go the sexy route. 

Life, Love & Relationships: Is it Possible to Taste Better? + Oomph Mini Massager Review

Butterflies! So if you’re not aware, September is National Sexual Health Month and it would be unjust of me to let the month go without mentioning it. One of my fellow/favorite “normalize the discussion of sex” advocates Amber Rose re-posted the “bae is coming over” starter kit (see below) and I couldn’t stop laughing.

Sexy Vibes: Online Plus Size Lingerie Boutique

Hey my Sexy Butterflies! Just wanted to share this really awesome online plus size lingerie boutique I recently discovered...PlusSizeLingerieBoutique.com!  

I'm so in like with this site; there are tons of items to choose from for intimate nights or to add some sexiness to your costume this Halloween. Shipping was pretty standard and the product is of good quality for the price. The only thing I would suggest is that when ordering you might want to go up a size (or two) from what you normally wear because some of these items run small. 

If it caught your eye, the link to this particular product (the one I ordered) can be found here. Also check them out on Facebook and Google+.

This is a advertisement post, I maybe compensated for my time/services either monetarily or in products/goods.

Actress Zoe Saldana talks Race & Sexuality

Hey Butterflies! I just came across this interview with actress Zoe Saldana (currently my favorite female actress) and BET rep Smriti Mundhra; I had to share it. I first fell in love with Ms. Saldana after seeing her performance in the action packed 2011 Colombiana film. Watching this interview made me love her even more. I agree with pretty much every thing she had to said. Check it out!

Book: Alpabet Gumbo | A Guide to Spicing Up Your Sex Life by Ique Brown

Butterflies, I recently purchased an autographed copy of Alphabet Gumbo from the author and when I first read the title it reminded me of the Chicken Soup books I use to read as a teenager; this warm feeling came over me and I though this should be a great read because I use to love the Chicken Soup books (especially Chicken Soup for the Soul). 

In the  introduction the author and Founder of Joy-gasms, D Ique Brown talks a lot about how the value of both relationships and marriage have changed over the years and then she goes on to compare intimacy/sex to food; the two things all humans crave at some point in their life.